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Love & Lust for Queer Men

As gay and queer men, sex is central to our culture and connections with other men. Although we may be having lots of sex or longing for it, we may feel like something is missing. We can be torn between extremes, unsure how to harmonize our desires for hot sex with our longings for intimacy. 

Queer Connect is a community for gay, queer, bi and trans men seeking connection and tools to craft exciting erotic chemistry and unique sexual expression. There are very specific reasons why sex and love are often split for us, but we can bring these two ends of our personal spectrum into harmony. 

Our workshops are designed to help bring Love & Lust together by increasing our capacities for intimacy, cultivating desire, and overcoming blocks to expression. We highlight various topics each month.

Love & Lust:

In this workshop you will learn practical tools to have more fulfilling, satisfying connections and hot sex that feels truly authentic, whether you are single or in relationship. This event will focus on:

  • Breaking through inhibitions for more peak experiences

  • Interpreting fantasy as a guide to your emotional needs & unlocking sexual potential

  • Crafting your personal Erotic Theme 

What to Expect:

  • A blend of group discussion and practical exercises.

  • Drawing on Tantra, NVC, Hakomi psychotherapy, current theories in couples’ therapy, sex therapy, EFT, and mythology, we create a safe container for you to share about your experience. This is a clothing-on workshop for anyone who identifies as a queer man.

Queer Connect:

We offer a variety of workshops and interactive experiences to explore intimate touch, our individual and collective psychology, and our spiritual journeys into the heart of sex and desire. Learn tools to enrich your relationships and sexual practices. Also available for private bookings. 

Learn more at www.finndeerhart.com


Finn Deerhart, Facilitator

http://finndeerhart.com/about-finn-deerhart/


Sam Sebastian, Facilitator

https://www.samsebastian.com/about-sam-sebastian/